's 11, 12 years younger than me. i feel like i'm robbing the cradle. >> in real life? >> in real life. not on the show. >> you're not playing cougar thing? >> no, no, poor jay has to age up. >> talk about your real-life husband. >> there he is. say hi, tommy. >> how long have you been married? >> this new year's it will be two years but we've been together eight years. >> tell us your story. i met him through my brother, my brother's friend. i found out he had four kids, i about [ bleep ] -- sorry, you can bleep that out, you want to do that again? i found out he had four kids, oh, my god, but i love his kids, they are terrific. >> you've got your wolfy. >> not really anymore. he's 21, he'll be 22 soon. he's got his own life going. >> they leave and rarely come home. >> they don't care about you any longer. all the time i put into raising him. >> he's quite the musician, isn't he? >> he's very good. i'm a little prejudiced, but i think other people do know how good he is, too. bass is his least best instrument. he's really great at guitar and drums mainly. >> obviously, his dad, eddie
